Dating is hard… but it’s also really fun! That feeling you get when you first meet someone that you’re into… where you have butterflies in your stomach & you get excited when they call or text you… it’s awesome! However, for us girls sometimes, trying to decipher whether or not a guy is into you is hard- we all know guys are the masters of mixed messages lol!
This weekend I had a conversation with one of my best guy friends & we just started talking about men, women & dating etc & we got to talking about how you know when a guy is really into you & looking to get to know YOU & not just your body! After the conversation I thought that this would make a good blog post & I wanted to share it with you
So, here are 5 tips to know if a guy is really into you!
He likes you if…. He texts you between 11am & 5pm!
Trust me, its not the amount of times a guy texts you that matters, it’s all about when he’s reaching out to you! If he’s only texting you at 11pm… kick him to the curb, it’s a booty call & if he’s only texting you at 4am “I ma dunrk I wnna see u” then block him immediately! LOL
He likes you if … he suggests taking you out to lunch!
When a guy offers to meet you on your lunch break to take you to lunch… he likes you! He’s showing you that he actually wants to get to know you as a person & wants to have real conversation. Plus, if he’s making the effort to come to you & work around your schedule, then he gets extra points!
He likes you if… he notices & remembers things about you!!
Okay, lets be honest… Guys by nature do not pay attention to detail… unless it’s something that is actually important to them… like NBA playoffs lol! If he remembers your birthday, he knows the name of your best friend… or he recalls random things that you’ve said on past dates… then he’s into you! However… if he recalls things you’ve never told him…. Nextttt… stalker alert!
He likes you if…. He talks to your friends about you!
All guys know that in order to get to the girl, they have to win over her friends! If he’s making the extra effort to get to know your girls & he’s talking to them about you… then he’s a keeper!
He likes you if… he compliments you in a genuine way!
No, I’m not talking about “your boobs look good in that dress” lol… I’m talking about a genuine compliment that is flattering & that takes you by surprise. If he compliments the way you are with your friends, he notices your great qualities, he tells you you’re smart… & he uses words like “beautiful” …. Then he’s into you!
Bisous & Be Sexy,